Flip, your argument presumes the market has the power to agress and somehow coerce, or dictate, as you say. Government does this. Mobs do this. A market does not. You can choose to participate or not. If you can provide for yourself and family independent of a market, good for you. The market cannot kick down your door at night and make you buy a Big Mac. Or, shares in Facebook.
Your second sentence starting w Alienated, does not make sense to me. If , as you say, the labor comes from the market, so what? It's not coming from you. Right? Why is the market "alien"? The market, is other "yous". Are you an alien? Like I said, this does not make sense to me as stated.
Last paragraph- also, well, illogical. Markets do not imply anything. When you say "satisfy your needs just by living" do you really feel you are that entitled?
No one is entitled to having their "needs" satisfied just by living. Where does this notion come from? What are needs anyway? Btw, I need a new car. Satisfaction, please! I even asked nicely. Damn, Guess I have step up the economic activities.
What do you mean by your statement other than wishful thinking? Ie. I don't want to work, but I got needs!