"It's a big deal. Fucking seriously."
it's also a big deal that we are all using computers, that rely on widescale destruction of the planet.....i.e., ourselves.
i meant to make this a comment, but to elaborate on my point, there's a huge problem with the word "should", as far as killing is concerned, you've got to do it to survive! Primitive cultures didn't deal with murder in the same way we do, which just compounds the problem and makes life worse for everybody. You can always just kill someone if they kill someone you love, but there are also other possibilities.....it's also possible for people to work things out among each other, i personally like the (supposed) eskimo system, if you kill someone, you apologize the the closest relatives, but the second time you die yourself!