anarchy, for me, is primarily about how we relate with others. economic class, social status, skin color, gender/sex, all the various ways people tend to categorize themselves and others, i find to be overwhelmingly (though not necessarily entirely) detrimental to creating and nurturing anarchistic relations. which to me, only exist between individuals, not characterized groups.
that is not typically the way most, especially those on the left, tend to see things.
"I was just curious about myself and where I stand in everything."
i would hope you seek to answer questions like that for yourself. others, especially others that may know you well as an individual, can be great tools for helping to understand yourself. but looking to others to define who you are and how that fits into your concept of the world, is a recipe for co-dependence and other unhealthy (to me), and even authoritarian, relationships. which is not to discourage asking questions of others.
just my 2c.